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What Does This Have to do with My Grief/Anxiety/Depression Anyways???

“What does collective liberation have to do with personal healing? What does caring about the suffering of strangers, (or not), have to do with our own suffering? What does keeping our hearts open to injustice have to do with our mental health? Everything. It has everything to do with it.” My last blog was a letter …

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Celebrating Juneteenth

Today marks Juneteenth – June 19th, 1865 – when Union soldiers reached Galveston, Texas, announcing that enslaved people in the South were free. This came TWO AND A HALF YEARS after the Emancipation Proclamation, a delay that reveals how liberation announcements and lived liberation are often worlds apart. For over 250 years, MILLIONS of African …

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Grief, Wild Roses & Deep Water Life

As we approach the longest day of the year in the Northern hemisphere, there’s something both luminous and liminal about this threshold time. And of course, a blessed Winter Solstice to those of you in the Southern hemisphere – also a time of deep pause and liminality! Summer solstice holds the paradox of peak light …

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What The Butterfly Knows About Grief

It has been a very full and fulfilling few weeks here at Dark Woods of Grief, as we began our 2025 Grief Tending & Ritual Facilitation Training & inaugural Roots of Ritual Training last week.  I am over the moon as we welcomed fourteen women, stepping across the threshold towards their gifts as initiated Grief Tenders. This is …

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Beyond Isolation: Why Collective Grief Spaces Are Today’s Most Vital Medicine

Artwork by Autumn Skye, “Seeker of the Sublime” In times of profound crises, the ancient practice of tending to our grief together takes on a whole new level of importance.  I have been on my soapbox shamelessly about how critical this work is at this time, and I’m not backing down. 🖤 Here’s why… Some astrologers are …

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The Quiet Revolution: Tending Our Grief Changes Everything

This is a short and sweet one, because I feel like I’ve been moving through honey (or mud, depending on the moment LOL) all week.  Anyone else out there feeling like this??  I’m doing some deep personal healing in these past few months, and it is slowing me down in a way I really haven’t felt before.  …

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The Bridge Between Collapsing and Emerging Worlds

Dear Beloved Community,First, to those of you who are in the depths of your own grief journey right now: I see you. 💔 I honour the courage it takes to feel what you’re feeling in a world that often rushes us toward false comfort.  Your willingness to be with your grief – to tend it, to …

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It’s Not Just Your Imagination

Have you ever felt that undeniable pull, that electric knowing that courses through your body? ✨✨✨ The one that doesn’t arrive through careful analysis but emerges from somewhere ancient and wise within you? Perhaps it comes as a tingling that races up your spine, a sudden heat blooming in your chest, or a magnetic draw …

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Grief’s Sacred Opportunity: Healing Our Fractured World

When the forest burns, the mushroom networks below the soil activate to share resources and information. In times of collective crisis, our human networks must do the same. The world is burning. Let’s not pretend otherwise. We’re all feeling it. Personal and collective grief can no longer be separated. This isn’t just another moment of …

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